My Argumentation (2)

Arrange Marriage Results In Unhappy Marriage

Marriage is a something important to join people in 1 life have mission and vission. Privat vission and mission each other can different. So need balance, need patient, and sincerity in do balance process. There complete disadvantages and advantages, sincerity have to forward compare with privat desire. The first begin we try to understand different way opinion. If different and friksi appear, we try to talk with cool head, emotion muffle, and soule flare up. Avoid debate and discussion forward.

The parents words, its better. Parents obligation with their children is a keep return to basis, is for pay homage to Allah SWT, educate to be sholeh and sholehah child and when they have been adult their so their parents seek marriage partner for their children. In seek marriage partner for children, we have to based on character have been leadhership to Rasulullah SAW, said that…

عَنْ اَبِى هُرَيْرَةَ عَنِ النَّبِيِّ ص قَالَ: تُنْكَحُ اْلمَرْأَةُ ِلاَرْبَعٍ لِمَالِهَا وَ لِحَسَبِهَا وَ لِجَمَالِهَا وَ لِدِيْنِهَا. فَاظْفَرْ لِذَاتِ الدِّيْنِ تَرِبَتْ يَدَاكَ. الجماعة الا الترمذى

From Abu Hurairah from Nabi SAW, he said that “ Marriage the girl because of 4 matter, because of wealty, because of state, because of beautiful, because of religion. So choose religion girl, if not so you will misfortune” ( HR. Jamaah include Tirmidzi)

If there parents and their children said different about marriage partner will they choose, so good way between each other give complete describe about their choose. So weigh what the fit with character Rasulullah SAW gift or no.

The teenangers in present inclined upset to face and wealth, that all because of relationship culture. If it happen, so parents have to give teachings, advise, and clear meaning fit with holly Al-Quran and sunnah Rasulullah SAW. If faithful children get that thing, nothing sincerity chozen and sure that they will get goodness.

The main is parents seek marriage partner look from religion, likewise their children look and check from religion their couple too. Because a wife and a husband is a beautiful chlotes and good pleasant in this life.

So……..I’m agree with this statement. J

Nina Nursartika (14609577)